Thursday, October 26, 2017

Discovering monogamy for life

Phil Beaver works to establish opinion when the-objective-truth has not been discovered. He seeks to refine his opinion by listening when people share experiences and observations. The comment box below invites readers to write.
Note 1:  I often dash words in phrases in order to express and preserve an idea. For example, frank-objectivity represents the idea of candidly expressing the-objective-truth despite possible error. In other words, a person expresses his “belief,” knowing he or she could be in error. People may collaboratively approach the-objective-truth.
 Note 2: It is important to note "civic" refers to citizens who collaborate for the people more than for the city.
A personal paraphrase of the preamble by & for Phil Beaver:  We the willing people of nine of the thirteen United States commit to and trust in the purpose and goals stated herein --- integrity, justice, collaboration, defense, prosperity, liberty, and perpetuity --- and to cultivate limited services by the USA, beginning on June 21, 1788.
Composing their own paraphrase, citizens may consider the actual preamble and perceive whether they are willing or dissident toward its agreement.   

Our Views (theadvocate.com/baton_rouge/opinion/our_views/article_229dac4e-a791-11e7-986f-934700887a51.html?mode=comments)

I agree.

Kennedy seems politically astute to establish the idea early. See kennedy.senate.gov/content/sen-john-kennedy-r-la-speaks-senate-floor-push-one-time-investment-infrastructure.

Today’s thought, G.E. Dean (Proverbs 3:27-29 CJB)
“Don’t withhold good from someone entitled to it when you have in hand the power to do it. Don’t tell your neighbor, “Go away! Come another time; I’ll give it to you tomorrow,” when you have it now. Don’t plan harm against your neighbor who lives beside you trustingly.”

Dean says “Don’t wait to do good. Do it now.”

Solomon’s message is more explicit than Dean’s. Folks like Dean utilize mystery to dust me off whereas Solomon might like my idea of collaborating for civic morality even though our religious hopes may differ.
  
Letters

Civic Justice (Westmoreland) (theadvocate.com/baton_rouge/opinion/letters/article_3037822e-b8ff-11e7-86c9-77f5af6fd3ec.html)

Thank you for sharing your view.

I advocate civic justice and will take deeper interest in the sentencing. See foxnews.com/us/2017/10/26/bowe-bergdahl-trial-searcher-thought-was-going-to-die-in-afghanistan.html. From the Fox news, it does not seem the media community, perhaps including Bergdahl’s defense team, is attentive to that fact. That does not negate your view about Army policy.

Here’s one of many reports of the Coast Guard incident: washingtontimes.com/news/2014/jun/11/bergdahl-discharged-coast-guard-joining-army-memo/.

To Scuddy Leblanc: In quality-control training, I learned that 85% of reportable incidents trace back to management failure. If, in a depressed state, someone known for depression wandered away from his post and was captured by the enemy, it seems to me the bosses who hired a depressed person bear some responsibility for the six lost soldiers. We need more facts to understand.

Dyslexia (Cassidy)
(theadvocate.com/baton_rouge/opinion/letters/article_864dcf76-b8fd-11e7-a0f4-d7768255d7ba.html)

The other day, I expressed hope the legislature will approve Rep. Franklin Foil’s original proposal---to increase TOPS requirement to 3.0 GPA---in order to create money for things like K-12.
 
Please add support for children who suffer dyslexia to my plea. Citizens including legislators may do all they can to help children in need.

Other forums 
quora.com/Whats-the-most-important-belief-required-in-order-to-be-in-love
First, “in love” is a practice that requires two adult parties. Each intends to take care of the other for life. Their bond is distinguished by the experience that each has the comprehensive fidelity to self in order to trust and commit for life.

By “adult,” I mean not only chronologically old enough for their bodies to have completed construction of the wisdom parts of the brain (age 23 if female and 25 if male), but psychologically mature in basic knowledge, comprehension, understanding, and intention to live a full, meaningful life. This includes the understanding by which to decide whether to mutually commit to procreation or not. A spouse who does not want to mutually care for children and grandchildren should not be forced to procreate.

I think (do not know) that other human bonds are based on attraction or appetite satisfaction rather than comprehensive fidelity. Without fidelity, bonds usually dissolve.

Bonding for life is unusual. I recall that perhaps 1/8th of civil marriages are monogamous. However, from experience, I think a person may know when they 1) intend to be true to self for life and 2) have found their spouse for life—-someone liked and who has the same intention.

I think that before that bond has formed there are other candidates in the world, but once a person has found their spouse, other intimate conversation is out of the question as a matter of fidelity to self.

To be true to self, a human cannot demand that his or her spouse compromise or subjugate. In other words, the search for spouse entails discovery of compatibility and intention to collaborate for a spousal institution that is more psychologically powerful than the separate spouses.

This view of “in love” only seems daunting. I do not think it is. I was attracted to many persons, dated some, tried intimacy with some, proposed and agreed to marry one, and then I discovered my spouse. My mom observed it happening and regretted to lose hope for a prestigious match. I flew to visit my friend and tell her I had to be true to myself then began to woo my bride, now of 48 years, with each day better than the day before.

I hope this helps.


Phil Beaver does not “know” the-indisputable-facts. He trusts and is committed to the-objective-truth of which most is undiscovered and some is understood. He is agent for A Civic People of the United States, a Louisiana, education non-profit corporation. See online at promotethepreamble.blogspot.com.

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